How to Attract Great People in Your Life

This blog has been up for about five years, first under RichGuyTips.com, then BoldThoughts.com, and for the last few months, RichSwitch.com, since we wanted to consolidate everything. When that switch happened, I handed over most of the writing to my business partner, Wendy.

I met Wendy on October 9, 2006. I know because she never lets me forget it. Today, September 15, is her birthday…which she never lets me forget either!

That got me thinking…

I can say that the day I met her was definitely the start of something life-changing, but at the time, it was just another evening. I was working from home and decided to listen to a talk radio, since my radio show as pretty fresh and I thought listening to other talk radio hosts would help me to become a better host myself.

Found a show about new age stuff, specifically psychics and mediums. Had been exposed to that type of work in the past and even worked as a psychic at one point, so I checked it out.

At the very end, a woman called in and asked about the business of being a psychic. She had been doing it for years, but was looking for a way to expand. As growing businesses is what I do, I perked up.

At the end of the call, the host said, “Give us your website so we can send you some business.”

She did…and I typed it in my web browser.

The site was ok, but I had some ideas to make it better. Wrote her a quick email that said, “I’m a marketing guy. Have some ideas on how you can get more business.”

That started the conversation…and within a couple of weeks, I had hired her to do customer service for my company. It wasn’t a position I was looking to fill, but I was having problems with customer service at the time and made me an offer to take over that aspect of the business for me.

She wasn’t looking for “customer service” work, but because she was looking for somebody to mentor her in business and marketing to help her expand her psychic business, working with me in that capacity would enable her to have that.

So here we are, just shy of five years working together, and she is running the show.

I know a lot of people here aren’t just looking for more money, but looking for partnerships to help them. And here is how Wendy and I came together…

  1. Find a Problem and Solve It– The relationship started and kept going because we each found a problem and made an offer to solve it.
  2. Be Nice and Help People – You never know who you’ll be helping or what they’ll be able to do for you.
  3. Be Open and Say Yes – I’m sure it was crazy to get an email from some guy claiming to be able to help solve a problem (and willing to do it for free), but that’s exactly what happened and what she said “yes” to and nothing would  have happened had she not done that.

Opportunity for what you want is all around you. Say “yes” to it. Had I never turned on the radio or reached out, no telling where I would be now.

Thank you, Wendy, for saying “yes” as well!

Also, keep in mind that you might be in the middle of something life-changing and not realize it now. So trust what you want is coming (or is here) and keep at it with an open heart!

The Love Journey – Or Not

When working on attracting the love of your life, there are a couple of different ways that things might go down.  It may be that you are in the right place in your life to attract your loved one.  In some cases however, you’re not quite ready.  In these cases, the Law of Attraction will start you on a journey to further evolve yourself until the point that you are ready to meet your partner. 

It can be frustrating to attempt to attract your soul mate with seemingly no success.  Things may even have become tougher in your life since you began.  You may seem further from manifesting your desires than ever before.  This is a good indication that the Law of Attraction is working to evolve you.  Tough times cause you to shift your consciousness, thinking in new ways, perceiving things anew.  You may be learning how to deal with things, to overcome nasty habits, or to change your usual patterns of thought.  In all of these cases, you will ultimately derive great benefit, so allow the process to unfold naturally.  If you kick and scream, it will only slow you down.

Instead, become more conscious of the process.  Whenever you encounter difficulty in your life, stop and ask what it is that you can learn from this experience.  If you become more aware and allow yourself to learn and catch on faster, then this journey will be much easier and faster for you.  If however you continue to stumble through your day, cursing unpleasant situations, it is likely to take a while.  Accept the process and work with it, and the difficult situations will disappear.  Furthermore, you will attract your mate more quickly.

Of course, there’s the other side of the coin.  Many of you may already be in the perfect place in your life to welcome your loved one.  If this is the case, then working on attracting them will yield some pretty quick results.  Be prepared for your person to enter your life in a surprising way, and be ready for them to take center stage.  Once the right person shows up, they will appear to glow and will stand out against everything else.  You will have a gut feeling, and they will too.  Coming together will be easy.

Whether you have a journey ahead of you or not in attracting your ideal mate, just remember that your work with the Law of Attraction is going to attract that person to you.  Don’t give in to worry, despair, or impatience – allow your love to move into your life in just the right way at just the right time.  Good luck!

The Law of Attraction in Your Marriage

Is the Law of Attraction an important component in your marriage? If it isn’t, may I suggest it needs to be, and to work on adjusting that immediately. In Amos, a small book of prophecy in the Bible, we read, "Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?". Looking also at Ecclesiastes, widely attributed to King Solomon, we see an elaboration of the value of hearts bonded towards a single purpose, " Two are better than one, because they have a very good reward for their efforts. If one falls, the other will lift him up, but woe to him who is alone when he falters, and has no one to help him up.". The meaning here is clear. If you should begin to show reluctance in  keeping your daily focus time with the Law of Attraction, your partner will encourage you to get back on track. Should you stray from a positive mindset, you partner will firmly, yet lovingly, guide you back to the center of your strength and belief. As you join your hearts and minds together towards a common goal, the power of positive energy that is being expelled on your behalf is decidedly greater, and therefore, so will the return be.

Consider the great value of melded hearts if there is an imbalance in the time spent or aptness towards reaching for higher planes of conciseness through absorbing the vast written knowledge available. Perhaps one of the couple would rather read than eat, it seems, whereas the other is more visual in their quest for information, seeking instead nature and it’s unending beauty for inspiration. Truly both gifts have  great value, and if they are shared, compliment each other to a stronger core center. Among the countless worthy of note quotes we can glean from Henry David Thoreau’s warehouse of wisdom is this nugget, "It takes two to speak truth, one to speak, and another to hear.". So succinct, and yet such glorious depth to contemplate.

Make time in your schedule to bring together the information from your daily experiences, and consider together those that have enriched your life, and those that are to be discarded from future concern. Give time each week to discerning together the actions you will both be taking, separately and as a team, to further your future achievements. In doing so, not only will your focus towards positive results from the Law of Attraction be greatly enhanced, but your marriage will also see dramatic improvement in all areas.

Attracting the Right Lover

If you are looking for your ideal mate, the Law of Attraction is your best friend!  Rather than wading through the sea of people, hoping to find the one person who works, why not simply attract the right person to you in the first place?  How many bad dates and failed relationships could you have avoided if you had simply attracted the right person and repelled the wrong ones?  Let’s discuss using the Law of Attraction to attract the right lover for you.

Once you have decided to find that one special person to spend your life with, it’s time first to take a good hard look at who you are and what you want in another.  Although this exercise is important, keep in mind, the universe may give you someone who at first glance doesn’t seem to fit your mental picture.  Looking back later, it may become apparent that you found exactly the perfect person for you.  So while this exercise is helpful in attracting the person you want, don’t insist that the person you magnetize match exactly your visualization.

For this exercise, find a quiet, peaceful place and begin to visualize being with the person you want.  Imagine walking hand in hand, laughing, snuggling up; anything that gives you a warm fuzzy feeling and excites you.  Imagine being very attracted to the person, but again, do not restrict the looks.  Allow the universe to bring your ideal person to you, and allow that person’s inner beauty to shine through, illuminating their outer beauty.  Imagine all of the intimate activities you will enjoy, such as dancing, snuggling up for movies, sharing baths, and of course sex.  Finishing this visualization exercise with a “happy ending” can actually add a giant boost to the energy you are giving to magnetizing your soul mate.  Also, the point of orgasm is one moment in life where the mind is completely still – make sure to keep your imaged lover in mind!

When the universe brings your romantic partner to you, you will feel it inside.  You will meet the person and feel immediately attracted to them.  You will just “know”, as they say.  The actual person may seem very different from the one you imaged, but the universe is not stupid.  Give them a shot, and you will be very glad you did.  Don’t start thinking that every person you are attracted to is the one – wait until you get a real emotional feel.  Just because you finished your visualization, the first attractive person to cross your path is not necessarily the person.  You will feel it in your solar plexus and in your heart.  It may be a feeling of anxiety or nervousness.  Or it may be a warm flush across your chest.  This is the universe letting you know that this is the person you have magnetized. 

There’s no reason to waste years of your life trying on different people, hoping to find the perfect fit.  You can easily begin drawing the right person to you today, so go ahead and get started!  Be patient – the universe will bring you the person, but it may not happen over night.  Keep doing your visualization from time to time, and just remain in a patient, anticipatory state.  Happy searching!

Attracting Love with the Law of Attraction

The biggest question I am asked time and time again is how to use the Law of Attraction to attract love into your life.  Some people have a certain person in mind; others are just looking for a new relationship.  The Law of Attraction is more than capable of bringing you love – if you go about it the right way.

First and foremost, those of you with a hang-up on a particular person, I have bad news.  You may not attract that person you so hope to attract.  That’s not to say it’s impossible, and there’s a million reasons why you might be able to.  However, more often than not what I’ve seen in my experience is that rather than a particular target, people attract someone who is an exponentially better match for them.  So while you may groan, I have never met a person who was disappointed in the end.

Hand in hand with the previous statements, it is not wise to practice forceful visualizations involving a certain person.  In energy terms, this is imposing your will upon others, and simply doesn’t work.  Everyone has free will.  When you begin doing your visualizations or playful intentioning, focus on the feeling of being with someone you deeply care about.  Focus on the friendship, the romance, and the fun.  Don’t put a face on the person, or put an imaginary face on them.  Even if you manage to attract the person you’re interested in now, you will have more success with this tactic than with imagining that person specifically.

Lie back in your bathtub with a bottle of wine and imagine walking hand in hand with your lover down the beach.  Imagine dining out, taking walks, or talking lightheartedly until the sun comes up.  The more involved in this vision (imagining) you become, the more energy you are sending into the universe that says “bring me a person who can fulfill this role!”  When this is done properly, you will likely meet someone very quickly.  But don’t worry about the timeframe – just enjoy the vision.

Do this when you soak in the bath, when you lay in bed at night, and when you first wake up.  Imagine this as you drive to work or sit in traffic on the way home.  The more you do this, the more powerful it becomes.  Your life will become full of a thick, oozing energy of love and attraction, and this will attract the right person to you.  And when it happens, don’t forget to thank the universe!

Attracting Your Soul Mate With The Law of Attraction

Ever since beginning work with the Law of Attraction, I’ve found that more interest has been expressed on attracting a soul mate than even on attracting money.  Luckily, attracting a soul mate couldn’t be easier, using the Law of Attraction.  There’s no reason you can’t attract that one special person who makes your heart thump, and who likewise feels the same about you.  Let’s discuss how you can attract your soul mate using the Law of Attraction.

First and foremost, the trick to attracting a soul mate (or anything, actually) is consistently keeping an image of having what you desire.  So it is very important that once you begin working on attracting your soul mate, you keep at it every day.  This process may take days, weeks, or even months, but if you stop working towards it, you may not succeed, so it’s important you are persistent. 

Each day, spend a little time daydreaming (read: visualizing) about that special person.  Imagine the feeling of being with them, holding their hand, enjoying their company.  This should give you plenty of warm fuzzies, and those emotions are exactly what are working to attract this person into your life.  It’s easiest if you don’t specify a person when you do this, but if you must, then there’s no reason you can’t succeed at attracting a specific person. 

This is probably best accomplished during the times when you are most comfortable, such as in the morning or evening when you are in bed or even when you are in a nice, sudsy bubble bath.  Be careful, because this process can become addictive!  And the more addictive it becomes, the more you’ll know you’re doing it right.  Don’t feel bad about it – if you fritter away endless hours daydreaming about being in love, that will only further empower your manifestation. 

If you break for a day or two, don’t worry about it, just start again when you notice that you haven’t been working on it.  Sometimes little things in life will come up and our habits will be broken – make sure you restart the pattern as soon as things calm down.

Also, make sure that you put yourself in places and situations where you can meet other people.  Go out to parties, hang out with friends, and find interesting things to do in places where you might meet someone new.  If you feel a whim to go somewhere that you hadn’t originally planned, go!  Sometimes your intuition will guide you, but only if you follow it.  Once you begin this work, you will be attracting the right circumstances to meet your soul mate.

Finally, when you meet that special person, you will feel a click.  They’ll feel it to – don’t worry, things will be pretty effortless.  Love at first sight is possible, but the phrase is a bit misleading.  It’s not sight that causes the love, but a soul recognition.  You and that special person will understand each other right away, and things will progress easily and naturally.  You will not have to work particularly hard at starting this relationship; it will be mutual.

Remember to remain persistent and work on your visualization every day.  The more time, energy and emotion that goes into it, the more quickly you will attract your soul mate.

Law of Attraction and Relationships – The Teleseminar

Here’s a recording of the teleseminar I did with Wendy Wallace of IfYouCouldKnow.com.  We talked about the Law of Attraction and how it affects relationships. 

On this call, you’ll learn more about:

– How to attract the relationship you want.
– What happens when your partner/spouse doesn’t believe in LOA.

– Soulmates and the Law of Attraction.

…and more!

You can listen here using the player below…

Like what you hear?  Check out my new book, Ask, Believe, Receive – 7 Days to Increased Wealth, Better Relationships, and a Life You Love.

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The Law of Attraction and Relationships

It has been said that the Law of Attraction can manifest itself in matters of wealth, health, and happiness.  Part of the happiness is having fulfilling relationships.  These can be romantic love relationships or familial relationships or simple friendships.  The Law of Attraction affects them all. 

Whether you are trying to put the Law of Attraction to use in your life or not, it is always at work.  You are always putting out vibrations into the universe.  They are always collecting with like energies and coming back to you. 

The difference when you deliberately use the Law of Attraction is that you focus on the things you want.  Then, these positive things return to you.  What you give your attention to is what becomes important in your life. 

Once something becomes important to you, you will develop an excitement about it.  That excitement will turn into a power that is greater than any you can drum up by simply repeating words about what you want.  The Law of Attraction works in relationships as well as it does in anything else. 

By deliberately using the Law of Attraction, you can find that special person you are looking for.  One step is to determine what it is you want from a mate.  Make a list.  Write down strengths you would like the person to have.  Write down joys you would like to share. 

Once you have a more concrete idea of what you want, the universe will bring you to your mate through the Law of Attraction.  This will happen through matching of frequencies.  You send out the frequency of what you want.  That vibration goes out and collects with other frequencies like it.  In other words, it matches. 

When your frequency is vibrating in concert with another frequency, it will only be a matter of time before you meet someone.  The Law of Attraction will be at work.  At this point, you should follow your hunches.  If you have the urge to do something on a different schedule than usual, then do it.  This may be how you find your mate. 

Just let the Law of Attraction do its work.  Continue to reaffirm in your mind the fact that the person you are looking for exists.  Believe that you will find that person.  Draw your attention and excitement to the subject.  Things will happen. 

Other relationships work on the theory of matching as well.  You put out energy towards a person in your life.  That energy can be for or against them.  Whatever energy you send them will match whatever energy in them that is like that frequency.  You will get the result you expect.  This is the Law of Attraction. 

If you are feeling down, the Law of Attraction will supply you with a companion in despair.  As the two of you spiral down, you will be better off if you decide to let the Law of Attraction work for you instead of against you.  Find ways that your frequencies can vibrate in harmony in a positive way.  This will strengthen and lengthen friendships like nothing else. 

Your relationships can develop into more than they ever were before.  Your friendships can be deeper.  You can live in harmony with your relatives.  Your love interests can become life-long partners.  The Law of Attraction can make it all come true.