Do you find that you are not as confident as you wish to be? Does confidence seem to elude you in social situations? Do you wish to be a social dynamo, rather than a social seashell? If so, the Law of Attraction offers hope. Using the same tactics you would use to manifest any other desire, you can manifest confidence within yourself. Let’s look at how to do that.
The Law of Attraction states that the thoughts that you hold in your mind, fueled by the power of emotion, manifest into your physical reality. The most common way of utilizing this Law is by using visualization exercises. Don’t be put off by the term. Visualization is just a fancy word for daydreaming.
So here’s what you want to do. Take a little time each day to imagine yourself as an extremely confident person. Put yourself in situations where you would normally lose confidence, but in your daydream be the most confident person in the picture. Or at least see yourself as confident as you would like to be.
Imagine yourself asking out that pretty girl, or standing up to a menacing figure. Imagine marching into your boss’s office and demanding that raise. Whatever it is you want confidence for, daydream about having total confidence in those situations. Believe it or not, this will begin to sink into your subconscious, and you will literally begin changing into the person you imagine yourself to be.
Be patient with this process. It can take days, weeks, or possibly even months. Keep at it every day or two. This is important for your life, and you should take it seriously. At the same time, the daydreaming sessions themselves should be enjoyable, and should stir up some positive emotion in you, such as pride, excitement, or a general feeling of wellbeing. This emotion fuels your thoughts and attracts the confidence you desire into your reality.
Write a story with yourself as the protagonist. Take them into many situations where you can direct their confidence to your advantage. This should be a fun process as well. Spend as much or as little time on the story as you want, but the very process of writing it will help cement within your mind the qualities you are attempting to absorb. Read this story from time to time, and enjoy the feelings it gives you.
In time, the confidence you are projecting in your imagination and on paper will begin to sink deeply into your subconscious and become a part of the person you are. You will find that you actually begin to have more confidence in your daily life. You will find yourself feeling proud of your social interactions, and of the confidence with which you conduct yourself. One day you will look back and remember the unconfident you as a dim memory.